Bad Boy Attraction

*From my old Friendster Blog site written on April 29, 2007.

For this post, I'd like to give the props to David Deangelo for the basic idea from his theory of "Attraction Is Not a Choice"

Why do bad boys attract girls? Some of these guys don't LOOK attractive at all. They could be hideous, monstrous, short, skinny, scary-looking, double-amputated, anything, you just name it.. but they get the most gorgeous girls in town.. Isn't that amazing...

Perhaps it has something to do with confidence and approval...

Bod boys do things their own way, and they're confident.. They don't really care about what the girl thinks about them, and they often disapprove the fact that if-she's-beautiful-then-she-must-be-perfect.. They even pay lack attention to these girls..

While all of the "good guys" flock around these attractive girls trying to kiss up by giving endless compliments, dinners and gifts, bad boys rarely do so.. They turn the tables around by making the girls seek their attention and now the girls are the ones who are seeking approval from the bad boys..

Since they have the "attraction mechanism" that works this way, thus they have more power to choose (and usually get) any girl that they desire.. But with the power that they possess, some of them turns out to be abusive, as in, abusing the "power" that they have.. They go to the farthest distance in even ditching the most beautiful girls you could ever imagine..

But even after some girls have read this post, I'm sure they will still fall for the bad boys.. Why? Because they're much more fun to hang out with than the good guys!! Why again? Because good guys only know how to say "Yes my lady.." or a much much more smoother pickup line by saying "I hope you're happy with what I've done so far. Is there anything else that I can do to please you?"..

So girls, just beware of the ABUSIVE bad boys, i.e. the crooks.. And guys, if you're one of the bad boys, just remember, "With great power, comes a great responsibility"...

p/s: Do "responsible" bad boys exist? Of course... OR, Can good-looking guys be bad boys too? Sure, why not?...